{"id":3317,"date":"2014-03-29T23:53:27","date_gmt":"2014-03-29T22:53:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/?p=3317"},"modified":"2014-03-29T23:53:27","modified_gmt":"2014-03-29T22:53:27","slug":"happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/","title":{"rendered":"Happily ever after, men inte nu"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>To speak when words are needed and to share the silence when they&#8217;re not.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Citatet kommer fr\u00e5n filmen <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt1606389\/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1\" target=\"_blank\">The Vow<\/a> (Eller \u00c4lska mig igen! som den heter h\u00e4r i Sverige) som jag s\u00e5g ig\u00e5r. Det \u00e4r en s\u00e5dan d\u00e4r film som man tittar p\u00e5 och inte beh\u00f6ver l\u00e4gga s\u00e5 mycket tankeverksamhet p\u00e5, bara flyta med plus sucka och gr\u00e5ta lite n\u00e4r andan faller p\u00e5. En gullig film helt enkelt, perfekt f\u00f6r en ensam kv\u00e4ll under en pl\u00e4d i soffan. <\/p>\n<p>Men som alltid t\u00e4nker man (jag) en del efter dessa puttinuttfilmer, p\u00e5 den stora k\u00e4rleken, p\u00e5 framtiden, p\u00e5 livet. Finns den stora k\u00e4rleken d\u00e4r ute och v\u00e4ntar p\u00e5 mig, eller har jag redan upplevt den? Kommer jag vara ensam hela livet eller kommer jag hitta n\u00e5gon som jag m\u00e5ste dela filten i soffan med? S\u00e5 klart hoppas jag ju att han v\u00e4ntar n\u00e5gonstans d\u00e4r ute, att det inte \u00e4r &#8221;k\u00f6rt&#8221; f\u00f6r mig. Fast som det \u00e4r nu f\u00e5r han faktiskt forts\u00e4tta v\u00e4nta f\u00f6r jag \u00e4r inte redo f\u00f6r att tr\u00e4ffa honom \u00e4n. Eller jo, det skulle jag ju vara om han pl\u00f6tsligt d\u00f6k upp men saken \u00e4r den att jag inte vill att han ska dyka upp \u00e4n. Jag vill vara ensam. Och ja, de \u00e4r ord som jag s\u00e4kert kommer \u00e4ta upp i dystra stunder men f\u00f6r stunden \u00e4r det faktiskt s\u00e5 &#8211; jag vill inte tr\u00e4ffa n\u00e5gon nu. <\/p>\n<p>Och det \u00e4r en ganska sk\u00f6n k\u00e4nsla att ha landat i.<\/p>\n<p><small>\u203a\u203a 29\/100 #blogg100<\/small><\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Dela:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-twitter\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-twitter-3317\" class=\"share-twitter sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/?share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klicka f\u00f6r att dela p\u00e5 Twitter\"><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Klicka f\u00f6r att dela p\u00e5 Twitter (\u00d6ppnas i ett nytt f\u00f6nster)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-print\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-print sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klicka f\u00f6r utskrift\"><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Klicka f\u00f6r utskrift (\u00d6ppnas i ett nytt f\u00f6nster)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-pinterest\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-pinterest-3317\" class=\"share-pinterest sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/?share=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klicka f\u00f6r att dela till Pinterest\"><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Klicka f\u00f6r att dela till Pinterest (\u00d6ppnas i ett nytt f\u00f6nster)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p class=\"excerpt\">To speak when words are needed and to share the silence when they&#8217;re not. Citatet kommer fr\u00e5n filmen The Vow (Eller \u00c4lska mig igen! som den heter h\u00e4r i Sverige) som jag s\u00e5g ig\u00e5r. Det \u00e4r en s\u00e5dan d\u00e4r film som man tittar p\u00e5 och inte beh\u00f6ver l\u00e4gga s\u00e5 mycket tankeverksamhet p\u00e5, bara flyta med plus sucka och gr\u00e5ta lite&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/\">Read more &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Dela:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-twitter\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-twitter-3317\" class=\"share-twitter sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/?share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klicka f\u00f6r att dela p\u00e5 Twitter\"><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Klicka f\u00f6r att dela p\u00e5 Twitter (\u00d6ppnas i ett nytt f\u00f6nster)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-print\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-print sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klicka f\u00f6r utskrift\"><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Klicka f\u00f6r utskrift (\u00d6ppnas i ett nytt f\u00f6nster)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-pinterest\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-pinterest-3317\" class=\"share-pinterest sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2014\/03\/29\/happily-ever-after-men-inte-nu\/?share=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klicka f\u00f6r att dela till Pinterest\"><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Klicka f\u00f6r att dela till Pinterest (\u00d6ppnas i ett nytt f\u00f6nster)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"Happily ever after, men inte nu #blogg100","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[359,471,470],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p23rAr-Rv","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2324,"url":"https:\/\/hoppfull.nu\/index.php\/2013\/01\/23\/livet-karleken-och-barnlosheten\/","url_meta":{"origin":3317,"position":0},"title":"Livet, k\u00e4rleken och barnl\u00f6sheten","date":"23 januari 2013, 23:50","format":false,"excerpt":"Satt och pratade med en jobbarkompis p\u00e5 v\u00e4gen hem fr\u00e5n jobbet, om livet och k\u00e4rleken - och s\u00e5 kom vi in p\u00e5 barnl\u00f6sheten ocks\u00e5. 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